The I'mPerfect Perfectionist

Came home from the hospital.. and you can guessed as much as I .. that the house was in a huge mess.. dirty .. and smelly.. and bad plants not thrown out at all.  The man had to take care of me.. the kid.. and yet.. gotta clean the house.. and do the laundry.. and [...]

Yes.. the man wants another toy.. ! he said.. he wasn’t sure if he was gonna buy it.. but I know him too well.  If we didn’t have so much bills to pay.. and so much inventory to upkeep.. it’s fine.. but since we still need to pay taxes and all.. i would hope .. [...]

My MIL came to help with the kid.. but she wouldn’t plan for her meals.. and needs to be told daily.. and every meal.. what to give her to eat.  Not only that.. she never cooked in advance.. even though they bring the kid to visit me. I worried myself sick.. because of it.. when [...]

The man left at around 1am.. to go to his “buddy’s” place to do Rock Band.  I really donch mind .. and really like to get some free time without the man.. but the “buddy” had never made an effort to be a friend at all.  So whenever the man goes over to his house [...]

I wished i was home.. that way when i do shop.. i don’t have to bring the man along.. for i can get public transport.. sit and have a cuppa .. at Starbucks.. and have fun with the kid on my own.  Because back home.. i can go without the help of a car.. i [...]

Glad to be home after my operation and the man was in the hospital with me.. the whole time.. and i can’t wait to get outta the hospital.  Luckily the in law was home.. looking after the kid.. else i couldn’t even get the man to come.  The nurses sucks.. big time here.. on the [...]

Yes.. she came, she helped looked after the kid.. but she wasn’t cooking for me.. or making sure i get nutritious food.. to heal.  You would think she would.. but nope.  The only thing she cooked were some ham.. and potatoes one nite.. when there wasn’t anything she wanted to eat.  Very sad..!

Sure .. i see the man everyday.. and spend some various times with him daily.. but being in a foreign land.. and alone .. can get quite lonely.  At nite like this .. in the wee hours of the morning.. it gets even lonelier.  When there are chinese movies for me to watch.. it ain’t [...]

Yes.. and of course it isn’t as comfortable.. having another person in the house. I ‘ve gotta wear my bra.. and make sure.. i donch have holes in my clothes. I cleaned up a few more things.. at home.. but i know it won’t stay clean for a long time. My MIL refuses to do [...]

The MIL is coming to stay because my surgery is scheduled for Monday.  Nope.. i’m not really looking forward to it.. but i guess some help is better than no help..  since the man will be alone with the kid. I really hope.. that the MIL will come thru’ for us this time.. instead of [...]