Whenever the man .. does housework for me.. without me having to ask him to do it.. or bugging him.. it usually means.. he wants to go out to teletubby’s house… for gaming of course. But since my operation.. he hasn’t done it so far… and lucky for him.. coz’ i would have been really mad.. mad..! so when he did the cleaning of the bathroom.. mopped the floor and clean out the dishes he used tonite.. i asked him.. if he was planning to go out..?? and he said no. I asked him if he was planning to go out this weekend.. he said no. Ok.. now i’m wondering why he is so good..??
The laundry had been sitting in the room for a few days now.. but i refused to say anything about it. Give me another few more days.. i would do it on my own. What can I do eh..?? nag at him..?? ask him to fold the laundry..?? Is there a need to remind him..?? i donch think so.. afterall, he brought the laundry up right..?
The kid had some sort of mini graduation .. and i had invited the outlaws to come. I was surprised that they said they would try to come. The said day.. the graduation was over.. and she turned up. Blamed it on the father in law .. and she was almost upset. Oh well..! what can i say right..??
The FIL had said that the MIL was gonna be in town today.. so we had told the kid .. that Grammie was visiting.. and in the end .. she didn’t come.. nor did she call or leave a message that she wasn’t coming. Thus, making the kid all upset.. and asking why. *sigh* .. what can i say..?? Grammie is slacker grammie..??
The man had to wake up with the kid to bring her to school at 7.30am for the last 2 mornings.. and instead of going to bed.. after sending her to school.. he would be gaming on his stupid xbox 360. But i let him be.. coz’ it’s his health.. and he is a big boy.. and i ain’t gonna be his mother. But you see .. even with the morning gaming.. and the little gaming that he does in the store… when it isn’t busy.. he still games .. after the kid sleeps..!1!! OH MY GOD..!!! instead of taking care of me.. and chatting with me..!! wait when i am better.. i am gonna bitch slap him..!
It irks me big time.. that whenever we bring the kid shopping with us.. the man is very grouchy..and is always almost mean to the kid. I tell you . .my kid is not a bad kid at all.. she is in fact alot better than most kids in this town.
But the man is not counting his blessings at all .. for she is such a great kid.. smart, funny, cute. . but can be bratty at times.. but she is afterall a kid. She never demands for anything. .or neither is she rude.. or badly behaved when she is outdoors. She just does.. what a kid would do.. yet. the man can be literally sounding like she is a great disturbance. I wonder when he is gonna realized that she is a great kid.
The FIL insisted that when i do writing like this.. i am just writing bull shit. But he doesn’t know that my writing bull shit has made life alot easier for his son..and his grandkid. So hurtful.. to say .. i have bad grammar and writing bull shit. So if i don’t write bull shit.. he is going to give money to his son.. for bills..?? Why do ppl say things without thinking..!
Yes.. the man spends about 4hrs gaming last nite. But what can i say right..?? afterall.. he worked the whole day.. and ran errands.. cooked.. and did housework.. but there were more to do around the house. but what can i say right..?? oh well.. ! c’est la vie.. eh..??
My in laws seems to think that I should be well by now. They seemed surprised.. when i tell them i am not at the store yet.. and still in alot of pain. I guessed the difference between my c-section when i had my kid and now must be really different for them. When i had my c-section .. i was up and about the very same day. But now.. i am still in alot of pain after a month. I can’t helped it.. either.. and i hate it. But i can’t be well.. every other day.. and they keep asking.. and i’m frustrated.
The man happily said… that it was an idea.. for him to go to the city to get my chinese food.. with his buddy .. since no one seems to be going up.. and i’m still unable to travel because of my operation. Although i know he was doing this outta good will.. i can’t believed he wants to drive up with his buddy.. and leave me and the kid all alone at home..!! No freaking way.. man..!! I rather do without my chinese food than to share the man with his rolly polly tubbyfart.