Whenever the man .. does housework for me.. without me having to ask him to do it.. or bugging him.. it usually means.. he wants to go out to teletubby’s house… for gaming of course. But since my operation.. he hasn’t done it so far… and lucky for him.. coz’ i would have been really mad.. mad..! so when he did the cleaning of the bathroom.. mopped the floor and clean out the dishes he used tonite.. i asked him.. if he was planning to go out..?? and he said no. I asked him if he was planning to go out this weekend.. he said no. Ok.. now i’m wondering why he is so good..??
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The laundry had been sitting in the room for a few days now.. but i refused to say anything about it. Give me another few more days.. i would do it on my own. What can I do eh..?? nag at him..?? ask him to fold the laundry..?? Is there a need to remind him..?? i donch think so.. afterall, he brought the laundry up right..?
The man had to wake up with the kid to bring her to school at 7.30am for the last 2 mornings.. and instead of going to bed.. after sending her to school.. he would be gaming on his stupid xbox 360. But i let him be.. coz’ it’s his health.. and he is a big boy.. and i ain’t gonna be his mother. But you see .. even with the morning gaming.. and the little gaming that he does in the store… when it isn’t busy.. he still games .. after the kid sleeps..!1!! OH MY GOD..!!! instead of taking care of me.. and chatting with me..!! wait when i am better.. i am gonna bitch slap him..!
It irks me big time.. that whenever we bring the kid shopping with us.. the man is very grouchy..and is always almost mean to the kid. I tell you . .my kid is not a bad kid at all.. she is in fact alot better than most kids in this town.
But the man is not counting his blessings at all .. for she is such a great kid.. smart, funny, cute. . but can be bratty at times.. but she is afterall a kid. She never demands for anything. .or neither is she rude.. or badly behaved when she is outdoors. She just does.. what a kid would do.. yet. the man can be literally sounding like she is a great disturbance. I wonder when he is gonna realized that she is a great kid.
Yes.. the man spends about 4hrs gaming last nite. But what can i say right..?? afterall.. he worked the whole day.. and ran errands.. cooked.. and did housework.. but there were more to do around the house. but what can i say right..?? oh well.. ! c’est la vie.. eh..??
The man happily said… that it was an idea.. for him to go to the city to get my chinese food.. with his buddy .. since no one seems to be going up.. and i’m still unable to travel because of my operation. Although i know he was doing this outta good will.. i can’t believed he wants to drive up with his buddy.. and leave me and the kid all alone at home..!! No freaking way.. man..!! I rather do without my chinese food than to share the man with his rolly polly tubbyfart.
I cooked for the brat .. even though .. i was in pain.. today.. because i didn’t really want her to eat frozen food. So the man just gotta come home and picked it up. He picked up the noodles.. but left the soup at home. Now how stupid can that be..?? but nope.. it’s not even stupidity.. it’s the “i don’t really care” attitude.. that drives me nuts..!! how can one eat plain udon without any soup..??? Surely, he saw the tupperware of soup.. and some fruits.. i prepared for the brat…??? nope.. obviously not..!! yet he got the cheek.. to come home.. looking upset..!!! it’s 3.19pm now.. the brat must be starving..!! but so what right..?? let the kid starve.. as long as the father is being stupid..!! sigh..!
Since my operation.. i try not to do too much.. and take time to recover.. but at times.. it’s just hard.. because it almost seems like the man.. is waiting till thy kingdom to come.. to do stuff.. like cleaning the dishes.. or bathing the kid.
Yes.. it irks me big time.. at 10.30pm.. the dishes not done.. the kid not bathed.. how can i not get all upset. But i really try to keep my cool.. and donch let the small stuff sweat. It almost seems like the man.. thinks i am well enough to do stuff… when clearly i am not. And he should know i’m not the lazy type.. so why in the hell.. can’t he just do it.. and put the kid to bed early..?? Frustrated..!
Ever since I found out that i needed an operation and now a blood transfusion.. i am more worried than mad with the man. He is so nonchalant about everything. I worried about my kid.. if i am not around. Even for my surgery that few days.. i wonder what is going to happen… and when i get home from surgery if i am lucky enough.
I swear the man never fails to amaze me.. by the many things he miss doing.. or pretend not to know or see. And the time he spends on the computer and xbox gaming.
Today he even reminded me.. that it was i that wanted the relationship .. some 14 yrs ago.. and had emails to prove so. Well.. maybe i was stupid..? or naive..?? or just plain STUPID..!! *sigh*.
The man went to the buddy house for rock band.. and thinking that he was cleaning up .. and making stew just because was not exactly true. When he left.. i looked around the house.. to see if everything was done.. but nope.. besides cooking and washing up.. the things he used.. the toys in the tv room. were not packed properly.. nor were the tables cleaned up.. the bath tub was filled with toys and wet towel.. and garbage not done.
But that’s alright.. i do what i can.. and tell myself.. as long as he did help a thing or two.. that’s good enough. *shrug*