I would never have thought that instant noodles was gonna be a joy to me .. but it is. Having no chinese food around here.. i turned to chinese instant noodles .. like maggi mee for comfort. Had i known this.. i doubt.. i would have moved to live here. Freak that..!
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My MIL had msned me the nite before to inform me that she needed a ride from the hospital at 10.30am. We are not usually ready by 10.30am to go outta the house.. and the MIL knows the reason. But it had always been this way.. even though the MIL got a driving licence.. she still won’t drive.
Lucky for me.. the man isn’t the same as those Asian men I know.. who would drop everything .. and go fly out to fetch his mother. Else i would have been really upset. But my MIL huh..! she loves to inconvenience the man.
Men and their games are a never ending story. What can you do.. if they are eyeing on it.. right..?? afterall, he does work hard for his money. So i closed 2 eyes.. and let it go. For i don’t want for him to feel like life is over .. after having a spouse and a kid. What would you do..??
My day yesterday .. went completely like a blur. We had gotten a letter from some government ppl that they had our bank account locked up until we get back to them about some taxes we needed to pay. Yes..!! it was easily settled.. because the man had the money for it.. but only because i had a surgery .. and then an emergency one.. that threw everyone off that he had forgotten about it.
But i don’t know if i should be mad with him… or should i be sympathetic.. because i’m sure he didn’t do it on purpose.. to make me fret and all. But c’mon.. buddy..!!! just get the hell over to the bank.. and pay them.. afterall.. you do have the darn money right..?? Oh well.. i’ll just have to think i have a weak mind. I was so upset.. that i had forgotten to take my medication the whole day..!
The man must by now think i’m a darn freak..!! but i think i have mellowed since my operations. I donch really bother him too much about cleaning the house.. or mopping the floor. In fact, I keep 1 eye close .. and just go with the flow. But come September.. things will change because the kid will be going to school.. and by then.. i’ll be feeling alot better.
It is kinda funny… and not so funny since it is kinda hard not to get upset.. when the man just wouldn’t speak with you about important decisions. I had some stuff to do with Canada Revenue.. but instead of offering to help all and clarify stuff.. he left me on my own. Here i am in a foreign country.. whereby most times.. ppl cannot understand what i am saying face to face yet.. over the phone it prolly might get harder.. but nope.. the man.. never offered. Like the money is only mine.. and not for him or the kid..?? JOY .. having a white man as your spouse.
The man .. donch understand.. that man and woman are different. While he loves to play games.. i wanna chat with him.. but at 3.28am.. he is still playing his games. Making him do breakfast and supper for me.. is my way of trying to be close.. but is it enough.>?? for him maybe.. but not for me.. that’s for sure. But for now.. i’m concentrating on getting well.. and making enough money to supplement our incomes. So for now.. i’ll let it be.
The man does not like to make phone calls for me.. from making a doctor’s appt to making enquiries for me. I know he does it for me.. but not without rolling his eyes. The reason why i want him to make the phone calls is because of my different accent.. sometimes.. the person over the phone.. donch understand me..! and in the end.. i still have to pass the phone over. It’s not like i speak any differently.. but some are just stupid.. if you know what i mean. So when he rolls his eyes.. i just wanna smack his head.. muhahahaha!!
I was just telling the man .. that his mother only calls .. when she needs something. Yup..!!! that’s right..! like today.. she started to MSN me. in the store.. and started chatting all because she wanted to find out if the man had gone to the bank for her.
You see .. this was the first i’ve heard that the man needed to go to the bank for his mother. Well.. if he had asked him.. on Sunday.. when we visited.. you would think she would MSN “him” instead of me.. to find out right..?? Messenger gal ka..?? plus .. she would never chat unless she wanted something done. *sigh*
The man loves to leave the kid’s bottles unwashed even till late at nite. Sometimes.. i cannot “tahan” and even though i am in pain.. or itch from hives.. i would still do it before sleeping. Firstly, sometimes i need to soak the slow cooker.. and if i don’t do the bottles.. i have no space for breakfast stuff the next morning. But nope.. if you don’t specifically tell him to.. he won’t do it. .even if you specifically tell him to.. he still forgets sometimes.. “arrrrrghhhhhh..!!!”