JOY..!! the grandmother didn’t come.. nor did she call. What nice person .. !! and her the spouse.. didn’t want to tell her not to come.. because it is quite the inconvenience for us. I don’t think they really care. Or just don’t care enough. Sad! their lost.
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But can’t he just take care of the housework ..and stuff that needs doing first..?? Nope.. !!! he went online and played till 2.30am.. even though the kid was sick.. and he might need to get up.. and be with her.. since i was up with her the night before. But i didn’t wanna say a thing.. but told the man.. that if the kid needed his time.. the next time.. and he growls.. or roll his eyes.. i’m walking out with the kid.
Yes.. !! what kinda person or friend.. wouldn’t support or give 2 bucks.. for charity .. and to a kid who is raising funds for her school..?? and to think that we consoled him. and all.. a few years ago.. when he and his wife were in marital problems.. !! good friend eh….!! Phui..! I really think .. that the man..can’t say .. he have many “real” friends..! it almost seems like all his friends.. only wants to be friends.. with “favors”
The spouse sent me to the kid’s school for break time to visit her.. because we have been having some trouble in school. But he stayed in the car .. the whole time. .instead of visiting the kid. Smart man..!! and i had to take care of the kid’s food.. running around with her.. and feeding her with food.. and trying to put on her gloves for her… and control those kids as well. MEN..!!
The outlaws were in today.. but i wasn’t in the mood to chat at all. In fact, i was a little afraid of being confronted again.. about the stupid “family name” issue. So i tried to be cordial.. and don’t want to talk to her directly. But guess what, she needed to know if my operation still hurt and said strange since I don’t do much. or anything heavy. Oh my God..!! leave me alone. I don’t want to come out, get the hint.!
Did I just say that..?? one minute .. i feel that the man is a good man.. another min.. i wanna smack him .. big time.. hahahhaha!!! Yes.. that’s how i feel at times.. i wonder if i am crazy.. or is it just the man.. that makes me crazy.. and go bonkers. Deep down inside .. i know he is a good man.. but why do i get so stress up all the time.. especially when it concerns .. my kid.
Wow..! it had been a long break.. since i last wrote.. and it was about bills again. Well.. this time.. it’s about the man’s mother. A few weeks ago.. she had come to the store.. and said it was illegal for me to use their family name.. since we were not “married”.
Yes.. i was hurt.. and even if it was true.. we didn’t get “married” .. we are still considered common law by the law/country.. so what’s the beef..?? We haven’t talked since. I’m still at a lost of words.. to explain how i felt.. because it didn’t feel like she was curious .. more like an accusation. So i don’t even know where it is coming from.
I would never have thought that instant noodles was gonna be a joy to me .. but it is. Having no chinese food around here.. i turned to chinese instant noodles .. like maggi mee for comfort. Had i known this.. i doubt.. i would have moved to live here. Freak that..!
My MIL had msned me the nite before to inform me that she needed a ride from the hospital at 10.30am. We are not usually ready by 10.30am to go outta the house.. and the MIL knows the reason. But it had always been this way.. even though the MIL got a driving licence.. she still won’t drive.
Lucky for me.. the man isn’t the same as those Asian men I know.. who would drop everything .. and go fly out to fetch his mother. Else i would have been really upset. But my MIL huh..! she loves to inconvenience the man.
Men and their games are a never ending story. What can you do.. if they are eyeing on it.. right..?? afterall, he does work hard for his money. So i closed 2 eyes.. and let it go. For i don’t want for him to feel like life is over .. after having a spouse and a kid. What would you do..??