The ImPerfect Perfectionist

A few days ago .. the man’s mother was in asking how i was doing..? and asked .. how come i still hurt since i don’t do much heavy stuff.  Now what kind of question is that..?  Of course i still do heavy stuff.. and even if i don’t, if i still hurt.. well.. i still hurt right..?  that kinda question was that..??

The outlaws were in today.. but i wasn’t in the mood to chat at all.  In fact, i was a little afraid of being confronted again.. about the stupid “family name” issue.  So i tried to be cordial.. and don’t want to talk to her directly.  But guess what, she needed to know if my operation still hurt and said strange since I don’t do much. or anything heavy.  Oh my God..!! leave me alone.  I don’t want to come out, get the hint.!

We went to the in law’s last week. The first for a few weeks now.. because of my surgeries. But of course the kid and the man did go even though i couldn’t go. Last week.. i went with them.. and of course the house was as dirty.. the MIL said she was gonna try cleaning up the kitchen.. because in a few weeks.. she will be working at the apple farm. Well. .the cleaning part .. i’ve been hearing for years now.. and so far.. nothing had been done. Last week.. while i was there.. it was hard.. because there were so many flies.. all over.. and i just couldn’t eat in this kinda environment..! and the kid had to kneel on the floor to eat her dinner. *sad*

We were there for too long.. because work started to drop when we wanted to leave. and of course the in laws computers were too filthy to even work on it .. *sigh*!  And today is sunday.. so i donch know to go or not to go.   We want to do the right thing.. that is to go and visit the in laws.. but on the other hand.. it’s not fit for visiting.. *sigh*

Shocking and bizarre.. !! i found out today . .that the BIL doesn’t washed his hands.. when he uses the washroom..!!  Eeeeeewwwwwkkk..!!!  what an awful.. awful unhygienic thing to do..!! my kid is never giving him hugs every again..!! Eeeeewwwkkk..!!!

The in-laws love to make fudge for the kid when she visit.  Last Sunday .. the man complained that the fudge smelled of smoke . because my in-laws are smokers.  It was so bad.. he had to remove the fudge from the plate that my mother-in-law had given to us.. to bring the fudge back into a plastic bag.  A week later.. it still smelled of smoke.  That is how horrid it is.