Yes.. my MIL came to helped me .. the second time.. when i went into an emergency operation.. but she never failed to tell me each day.. or to the man.. that she needed to get home.. to pick the peas.  But shouldn’t the kid be more important than the peas..??  shouldn’t we be more [...]

Came home from the hospital.. and you can guessed as much as I .. that the house was in a huge mess.. dirty .. and smelly.. and bad plants not thrown out at all.  The man had to take care of me.. the kid.. and yet.. gotta clean the house.. and do the laundry.. and [...]

My MIL came to help with the kid.. but she wouldn’t plan for her meals.. and needs to be told daily.. and every meal.. what to give her to eat.  Not only that.. she never cooked in advance.. even though they bring the kid to visit me.
I worried myself sick.. because of it.. when i [...]

Yes.. she came, she helped looked after the kid.. but she wasn’t cooking for me.. or making sure i get nutritious food.. to heal.  You would think she would.. but nope.  The only thing she cooked were some ham.. and potatoes one nite.. when there wasn’t anything she wanted to eat.  Very sad..!

The MIL was in yesterday.. and we had chatted about my operation..  and guessed what..?? she expects me to get up and cook.. after my operation.. because cooking isn’t anything heavy according to her.  According to her.. the doctor would want me up.. and doing stuff.. the next day.  Yes.. i understand that..!! BUT NOT [...]

About 5 yrs ago.. when i had my kid.. the mother-in-law came to stay and “help” .. so she said.  But besides looking after the kid.. and making her sleep.. and sleep .. and sleep during daytime.. she doesn’t cook.. nor do anything else.  And night time..the kid was all ours.. but you see.. with [...]

When my mother-in-law said.. she wanted to stay over nite.. if she didn’t get a ride home from her game.. the man and I didn’t say a thing. Because as much as possible… i would prefer she doesn’t.. coz’ she is of no help.. yet.. it’s gonna be inconvenience for us. I cannot [...]

It was awful.. when we went to visit the in laws.. and it smelled of shit.. all over.. because they had to put pig shit down in their gardens.  You wouldn’t believe how awful it was.  We shouldn’t have gone.. but stayed home.  Afterall.. the kid didn’t eat alot as usual.. and we had to [...]

We didn’t go to the kid’s grandparents place today.. because my tummy had been acting up.  But the most upsetting and disappointing thing is.. they never even bothered to call nor asked us online.  At least they should try and come visit the grandkid .. every other week or something.. but nope.. they rather not [...]

The in-laws love to make fudge for the kid when she visit.  Last Sunday .. the man complained that the fudge smelled of smoke . because my in-laws are smokers.  It was so bad.. he had to remove the fudge from the plate that my mother-in-law had given to us.. to bring the fudge back [...]