A few days ago .. the man’s mother was in asking how i was doing..? and asked .. how come i still hurt since i don’t do much heavy stuff. Now what kind of question is that..? Of course i still do heavy stuff.. and even if i don’t, if i still hurt.. well.. i still hurt right..? that kinda question was that..??
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The outlaws were in today.. but i wasn’t in the mood to chat at all. In fact, i was a little afraid of being confronted again.. about the stupid “family name” issue. So i tried to be cordial.. and don’t want to talk to her directly. But guess what, she needed to know if my operation still hurt and said strange since I don’t do much. or anything heavy. Oh my God..!! leave me alone. I don’t want to come out, get the hint.!
My MIL had msned me the nite before to inform me that she needed a ride from the hospital at 10.30am. We are not usually ready by 10.30am to go outta the house.. and the MIL knows the reason. But it had always been this way.. even though the MIL got a driving licence.. she still won’t drive.
Lucky for me.. the man isn’t the same as those Asian men I know.. who would drop everything .. and go fly out to fetch his mother. Else i would have been really upset. But my MIL huh..! she loves to inconvenience the man.
We went to the in law’s last week. The first for a few weeks now.. because of my surgeries. But of course the kid and the man did go even though i couldn’t go. Last week.. i went with them.. and of course the house was as dirty.. the MIL said she was gonna try cleaning up the kitchen.. because in a few weeks.. she will be working at the apple farm. Well. .the cleaning part .. i’ve been hearing for years now.. and so far.. nothing had been done. Last week.. while i was there.. it was hard.. because there were so many flies.. all over.. and i just couldn’t eat in this kinda environment..! and the kid had to kneel on the floor to eat her dinner. *sad*
We were there for too long.. because work started to drop when we wanted to leave. and of course the in laws computers were too filthy to even work on it .. *sigh*! And today is sunday.. so i donch know to go or not to go. We want to do the right thing.. that is to go and visit the in laws.. but on the other hand.. it’s not fit for visiting.. *sigh*
The FIL who came by the graduation for the kid.. still made fun of me.. or is it the kid..?? that she talked more like me.. like a Chinese.. he meant.. than her daddy. He joked that it must be because the man donch like to talk.. that must be the reason why the kid talks like I. What the hell is wrong.. if the kid talks like me..?? I donch speak good enough for him or for the kid..?? or i speak weird..?? *slap forehead* ..!! my FIL is definitely not good with jokes. .at times.. !
The kid had some sort of mini graduation .. and i had invited the outlaws to come. I was surprised that they said they would try to come. The said day.. the graduation was over.. and she turned up. Blamed it on the father in law .. and she was almost upset. Oh well..! what can i say right..??
The FIL insisted that when i do writing like this.. i am just writing bull shit. But he doesn’t know that my writing bull shit has made life alot easier for his son..and his grandkid. So hurtful.. to say .. i have bad grammar and writing bull shit. So if i don’t write bull shit.. he is going to give money to his son.. for bills..?? Why do ppl say things without thinking..!
My in laws seems to think that I should be well by now. They seemed surprised.. when i tell them i am not at the store yet.. and still in alot of pain. I guessed the difference between my c-section when i had my kid and now must be really different for them. When i had my c-section .. i was up and about the very same day. But now.. i am still in alot of pain after a month. I can’t helped it.. either.. and i hate it. But i can’t be well.. every other day.. and they keep asking.. and i’m frustrated.
My MIL .. kept telling the man.. that she needed to go home.. for the garden.. when she was staying at my place.. when i was in the hospital. But yesterday.. she was in town the whole day instead of helping in the garden.. and going to play bingo. What about the peas.. then..?? which she had kept saying it was important..?? *sigh*.. what does it tell you .?? I donch even wanna go there..!
That my MIL donch feel that she needs to give alot of help to me.. because i ain’t the daughter.. and just the daughter in law. But isn’t the man the son..?? so if she makes things easier for me.. and i recover sooner.. wouldn’t it means.. better for her son..??
But still i guess .. her probably perspective.. is she already helped enough.. quite different from a mother and daughter..?? or with a good asian mom..?? of course i can’t depend on mine.. for she would never fly all the way to Canada. She doesn’t even like taking the escalators..!!