Yes.. my MIL came to helped me .. the second time.. when i went into an emergency operation.. but she never failed to tell me each day.. or to the man.. that she needed to get home.. to pick the peas. But shouldn’t the kid be more important than the peas..?? shouldn’t we be more important..?? and because of her needing to go back.. once again..i forced myself to get outta the hospital.. sooner than i can. It was very stressful. I hope i never need my MIL’s help ever again.
Archive for July, 2008
The man went to the buddy house for rock band.. and thinking that he was cleaning up .. and making stew just because was not exactly true. When he left.. i looked around the house.. to see if everything was done.. but nope.. besides cooking and washing up.. the things he used.. the toys in the tv room. were not packed properly.. nor were the tables cleaned up.. the bath tub was filled with toys and wet towel.. and garbage not done.
But that’s alright.. i do what i can.. and tell myself.. as long as he did help a thing or two.. that’s good enough. *shrug*
Came home from the hospital.. and you can guessed as much as I .. that the house was in a huge mess.. dirty .. and smelly.. and bad plants not thrown out at all. The man had to take care of me.. the kid.. and yet.. gotta clean the house.. and do the laundry.. and mop the floor.
Surely, as a mother and grandmother.. you would try to keep the place somewhat clean. .that way.. the son don’t have to do alot.. when he gets home with a sick spouse..?? no..?? i guessed not..! my MIL’s perception of help.. is coming to be with the kid.. and that’s it.
Yes.. the man wants another toy.. ! he said.. he wasn’t sure if he was gonna buy it.. but I know him too well. If we didn’t have so much bills to pay.. and so much inventory to upkeep.. it’s fine.. but since we still need to pay taxes and all.. i would hope .. he ain’t gonna overspend again.. like a few years ago.
I guess boys will be boys..?? excuses .. i know.. !! i have to put my foot down..! no more spending uneccessary.. unless he is making it.
My MIL came to help with the kid.. but she wouldn’t plan for her meals.. and needs to be told daily.. and every meal.. what to give her to eat. Not only that.. she never cooked in advance.. even though they bring the kid to visit me.
I worried myself sick.. because of it.. when i was staying in the hospital.. but i kept my peace.. because it is her help we needed.. and we were at her mercy. It is extremely sad.. that i cannot fully depend on my MIL.
The man left at around 1am.. to go to his “buddy’s” place to do Rock Band. I really donch mind .. and really like to get some free time without the man.. but the “buddy” had never made an effort to be a friend at all. So whenever the man goes over to his house for a few hours.. i’m torn in between.. happy that i’m getting some time away from him.. and mad.. because why bother with someone like that. But i guessed they have been friends for a long time.. so *shrug*.. i just let it be eh.