The MIL wants me to have my operation in the winter.. because then she isn’t busy or needed in the gardens. But i hate winter with such a passion.. you wouldn’t believe it. So what is good for her .. isn’t good for me. Winter is our slowest time.. that means.. we [...]

Yes.. hate to do so much cooking and washing up.. and standing..!  just to get a decent meal.  Wished i could ta-pau for $2.50 – $3.50, coz’ that is what it cost .. back home..for a decent meal.  Not fantastic.. but decent.  I haven’t had curry crab for almost 8 yrs..! sad.. ! very sad..!  [...]

About 5 yrs ago.. when i had my kid.. the mother-in-law came to stay and “help” .. so she said.  But besides looking after the kid.. and making her sleep.. and sleep .. and sleep during daytime.. she doesn’t cook.. nor do anything else.  And night time..the kid was all ours.. but you see.. with [...]

Luckily the grandmother came to visit on Wednesday.. after the blood incident. Otherwise, i would have been real dissappointed. But guess what..?? she even bought a present for her.. but could it be because the grandaunt bought something too..??

Sometimes.. i wonder if the man thinks .. i can function just as well.. as anyone.. since i have these humongous fibroids.. and walking around with them.. and being weighty and all.. is so uncomfy.  The reason why i am thinking that is because each time.. he pretends and ignores.. and not do something.. like [...]

Now why would the grandmother let the kid play with fresh and clean towels ..??  Beyond me..! i tell ya..! Came home.. from work.. and found fresh towels.. all over the bedroom floor.. while they play camping and hide and seek.  Although i do appreciate the babysitting and bonding time the kid had with her [...]

Shocking and bizarre.. !! i found out today . .that the BIL doesn’t washed his hands.. when he uses the washroom..!!  Eeeeeewwwwwkkk..!!!  what an awful.. awful unhygienic thing to do..!! my kid is never giving him hugs every again..!! Eeeeewwwkkk..!!!

I guessed if we were home in Singapore..the kid would have already gone for pre-school, music classes.. and also ballet or some sort of dancing class.  But because we are here in Canada.. and i’m at the mercy of the man.. to find out stuff.. and to plan stuff .. for the kid, i feel [...]

The grandparents didn’t even call once nor asked about how the kid was doing .. since she was going to the hospital the day before.. to be put to sleep.  Pissed is the understatement of the year.. i am feeling.  Only one grand kid.. and not showing concern about her.. nor offer to help.. with [...]