Yes..! if i was home.. i would have definitely gotten a maid.. and needn’t worry about going for an op.. and no one to help with my kid.  Leaving her with my mother in law is not my idea of fun. .and safe.  At least the man will be around.. but i know he is short fused.  And can get very grouchy with the brat, although i also know that he loves her to bits.

Mixed feelings..?? yes.. or i’m just too worriesome.. and paranoid. But how can i not be.. i’m a mother.. and the kid is most precious to me.. more than my own life.