The kid had wanted her grandmother to come stay the night.. when she was ill.. a few days ago. But i told the man .. no way.. am i letting her stay.. because as history has it.. the grandmother was of no helped whatsoever.. when it comes to waking up with the kid at night. No matter what the kid would want us to get up with her.. so to have the grandmother here.. would just disrupt our routine.. and that isn’t good for me. So no way is the grandmother staying overnite.. and that’s for sure.
Even when i just had my c-section.. i had to get up to wash dishes.. and cook .. for Christmas.. the grandmother who was supposedly coming to help.. didn’t help .. nor would she washed any dishes. I cannot believed it.. but it was true.