One year. .i had planned a birthday party for the man.. and i really didn’t know how to cook ham.. so i had asked the mother to help me with it. So many years later.. i realised .. that the mother.. knows how to cook ham.. but refused to help me properly.. because she had all the pineapples into the boiling ham.. instead of just using the pineapples .. as garnishes. And the mother definitely cooked ham alot different.. than what she did when she “helped” me do it. No i cannot explained why..?? maybe she thinks.. since i am the one throwing the party.. i should be the one cooking..?? but that’s her son.. ello..!!!
The kid had wanted her grandmother to come stay the night.. when she was ill.. a few days ago. But i told the man .. no way.. am i letting her stay.. because as history has it.. the grandmother was of no helped whatsoever.. when it comes to waking up with the kid at night. No matter what the kid would want us to get up with her.. so to have the grandmother here.. would just disrupt our routine.. and that isn’t good for me. So no way is the grandmother staying overnite.. and that’s for sure.
Even when i just had my c-section.. i had to get up to wash dishes.. and cook .. for Christmas.. the grandmother who was supposedly coming to help.. didn’t help .. nor would she washed any dishes. I cannot believed it.. but it was true.