It is sad.. that even the sitter’s parents visit the kid more than her own grandparents.  And for every little thing we do for them, they remember to buy a small gift for the kid.  Wherelse the grandparents.. does nothing.. even though we go outta the way .. to help them out in anything they [...]

I never freaking thought i would say this.. but i do missed in flight food.. but i guessed i missed traveling around.  I have been clipped for a good 8 yrs now..!! haven’t taken a plane for 7 yrs..!!!  un freaking believeable..!!!   i never thought i would end up this way.. but i did.  What [...]

I was just complaining to the man.. that the kid doesn’t get no presents throughout the year from her grandparents.. except Christmas.  To me… it is so strange.. because isn’t that what grandparents do..?? spoil their grandkids..?? One year, the grandmother gave the kid.. a few bucks in a card .. for her birthday.. because [...]

I miss medical care from home.. where i can see my neighbourhood doctor anytime i want. Here .. the doctors are like God.. and their secretaries.. think that they are God’s protector.  But they are more like that Hau Tin Dog .. from the chinese fables.. that i’m used to listening and watching in shows.  [...]

The MIL came by the store to get her computer fixed yesterday.. and guessed what ..?? she wanted to watch what the man was doing instead of playing with the kid.. !!! *slap forehead* Plus it was so busy today.. and i was working online.. and she expected me to drop everything and do her [...]

I think the main reason i wanna go home.. is the food.. before everything else.  I am really crazy about my food from home.. and i’m turning myself into a bitch because of it.  Of course, i missed the shopping and convenience.. of everything.. but i could really use some char kway teow and laksa [...]

The brother-in-law won on bingo last week.. but of course.. he didn’t offer to buy us a treat or anything.. but that’s to be expected. Since the rest of the family is this way too. One time my MIL’s brother’s wife.. won $10K on a scratch ticket.. and guessed what she gave the kid..?? a [...]

Yes.. the man has got some very stupid friends..!!  one got married and less than a year.. is getting a divorce.. !! and the other one.. also got married.. went out of town.. and got a gal pregnant.. and is divorcing his wife.. too.  The other woman had a miscarriage.. and of course his marriage [...]

Sometimes, i feel so ashamed.. to tell ppl that the man and I despite being together for more than 6 yrs.. and have a kid together .. ain’t married.  Yes.. we just live together.. and what they call common law.  But at times.. i’m really glad we are not married.. because it’s easy to walk [...]

As much as we would like to do the right thing.. by visiting the grandparents every weekend..  we dread going because we always come back smelling so awful.. that we have to change all our clothes immediately.  And the kid needs to have her hair washed immediately. The try not to smoke in the house [...]